Sex Secrets Everyone Should Know!

Good sex with your partner can get even better. There are many ways men and women can both enjoy sex more and better please their partners. Just keep in mind that while there are some solid guidelines for improving your sex life, the best kept sex secrets are the ones waiting to be unearthed in your relationship.

 Start Talking About Sex

Ironically, some of the best sex secrets are those men and women keep from each other, Dr. Joannides famous sexologist says. To have good sex, you need to talk about your likes and dislikes.

“One of the most important things to do is to ask and to listen,” says Joannides. “A lot of guys are terrified that some people may think they don’t know all the answers. Also, some guys think they do know all the answers.”

Don’t Make Things Uncomfortable

Don’t ask about what she or he doesn’t like or what doesn’t feel good. That puts a negative spin on it. Instead, ask her or him what feels best.

Don’t Make Things Uncomfortable

Don’t ask about what she or he doesn’t like or what doesn’t feel good. That puts a negative spin on it. Instead, ask her or him what feels best.

Use Study Aides

“Try to get a book or two or three or four that you think your partner might enjoy,” Joannides says. “Look through it with her and see what she’s interested in. Sometimes it’s easier that way because someone might not be comfortable telling you what they want to do, but they may see a photo and say, ‘Hey, that looks interesting.'”

Share Your Fantasies

Remember that your brain is the most important sex organ in your body. Keep things fun and playful by talking over your fantasies with your partner. And don’t feel like you should rid your mind of fantasies during sex experts consider these fantasies an important way to kindle the desire that leads to erection and orgasm.

Get Creative

Try having sex in different places and at different times. Be playful and try out different positions. “Don’t just do the same thing every night, every time,” says Joannides. “It’s easy to get into a rut and be really predictable. Sometimes with certain things predictability is good, and other times it isn’t. It’s a wise man who learns which is which.”

Keep Porn Online

“Sometimes guys feel that what a woman wants is for them to be porn stars,” Joannides notes. “That’s probably one of the worst models for lovemaking you could ever have. It’s trying to live your life like you were a character on Star Trek. It’s a nice fantasy to watch. It wouldn’t work if you tried to act it out in real life.”

Stay Fit

Exercise has been shown to improve your sex life. For example, aerobic exercise improves blood flow, which is important in achieving an erection. It also can improve your sexual stamina and strength.